To The Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing

Dear Mama,

Please know that you are not alone. ..

There are many of us out there feeling

Defeated …

Overwhelmed …

Exhausted…

Questioning our decisions and if we are doing enough…

Feeling broken and like every day you’re trying to put the pieces back together …

Constantly feeling like you can’t possibly get through another tough day …

Just thinking about it starts to consume you and tears start filling your eyes…

Please trust me when I say …

“I get it “

I’m in the trenches with you …

I’m fighting the good fight right beside you…

I’m in your corner not letting you give up …

I’m crying with you sitting on your living room floor…

I’m hugging you and reassuring you that you WILL get through this…

I’m holding your hands and praying with you, asking Him to give you strength when you are feeling weak. ..

As moms, I think we feel things more intensely than most.

Sometimes I think it’s a blessing and a curse…

But one thing I know for certain …

Is that we NEVER give up …

We keep going…

We keep pushing through the hard days…

We keep swimming even though the current seems to be pulling us in the opposite direction…

So if you’re reading this and today is one of those days …

I want you to repeat after me…

“I AM DOING THE BEST THAT I CAN”

Now take a good look in the mirror and know that the person staring back at you is NOT failing …

YOU are doing an amazing job..

YOU are a good mom…

And you will get through this..

You are stronger than you think my friend ..

And this too shall pass ..

Sending you lots of love,

Christina

22 thoughts on “To The Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing

  1. Wow, this is an amazing post and everything that I’ve felt before! Although today was an actual good day, these are words that every exhausted mom needs to hear, sometimes…just to know that someone understands. Thank you!

  2. I feel this way a lot! Thank you for putting into words so eloquently what we all feel at some point in our journey. Brighter days ahead….of that I’m sure! 💙U2🧩s

  3. Thank you, and love and hope to all moms of children with disabilities, children with autism. It is a long, difficult, challenging road. Someday things will be better.

  4. Please don’t leave out the dads who are very ‘hand-on’ with raising their children! They also have those days and need our support and encouragement!

    1. Absolutely!! I’m so glad you said that because I’m actually working on a blog post right now about dads. My husband is extremely supportive and hands on like you said! I’ll be sharing it this week. Thank you!

  5. Just yesterday I lied on the kitchen floor in front of my two children and cried like a baby, helpless, exhausted and burnt out…for 1 minute. Not the best example for two girls eventhough the autistic one wasn’t impressed even the slightest. I feel like a failure in parenting most days but then again I’m the best person for the job (no other candidates anyway) so my mantra is: “I do the best I can” and pray for the best

    1. I am so sorry to hear that. I really hope today is a better day for you. Sending you lots of love and hugs. ♥️

  6. Thanks for this today. Been dealing with iep and teacher issues. My autistic son is having hard time and it’s been a rough few days

    1. I am very sorry to hear that. Keeping you in my thoughts. Are you on Facebook? If you look at my Love Hope & Autism page on Facebook I have tips for IEP meetings and how to create All About Me pages for your child. They have been extremely helpful for families. Please let me know if that helps. Take care!

  7. I needed to read this today. Almost a year after we made the painful decision to request our son to be placed in a therapeutic boarding school to help him gain skill for independence, a year of people probably thinking I’m nuts, a year of fighting with school districts to prove our son needed this.. today I get the acceptance letter from a nationally recognized program but I still feel like questioning myself whether I’m doing the right thing. Leaving it in God hands that I am. God bless you thank you for this

    1. I am so sorry that you’re feeling that way. Parenting is hard … no matter what, trust in yourself and know that you’re doing what you think is best for your child. I will say an extra prayer for you tonight. I hope it all works out.

  8. That was so beautiful it has actually helped me stand up and know I’m not alone at all even though I did feel like it before but reading the post has helped out a lot

  9. Also I know being a autism mother with a daughter going through the same as me it does help explain that we aren’t alone

    1. You’re welcome! I’m glad you were able to relate. I hope you have a great weekend!

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